5 Ways Women can feel more Confident

At Houston area boudoir studio Heights Boudoir we take intimate photographs of women.  I have witnessed the transformations of women right before my very camera.  Reluctance and feelings of not measuring up soon transform into confidence and dignity.  Importantly, it is a beautiful metamorphosis.  

Thus, here are some steps you can take to increase your own self-confidence.  I know that there is a graceful, confident and sensual woman inside every female out there.  Set her free in your life!

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Try something new.  Even if it is as simple as eating at a new restaurant.  See a new taco stand?  Try it!  Take up an art or a yoga class.  New experiences broaden your horizons.  They also remind you that you are capable of so much more.  Step outside your comfort zone, you may be surprised how much fun it is!  

Discovering new activities, places, or even people will add to your feelings of accomplishment and will boost your confidence level up at least a notch or two.

Buy New Undies!

I can’t say why, but new foundation wear just makes me feel good!  It does not matter to me that no one sees it, just knowing that I have on a beautiful lace bra and matching panties makes me feel sexier and more confident.

Therefore, ditch those old, worn out cotton grandma panties and splurge on some sexy new lingerie, or those cute boy shorts, or maybe, dare I say it, a thong!

Dedicate Time to Your Passions

Remember those things that really gave you a charge?  You remember, that feeling of your heart singing!  Dancing with your honey, playing with those watercolors, listening to Bob Marley?  Most relevant, whatever it was – make time for those things!   Hopefully, that passion is still there for the special person in your life.  Sometimes we need to dedicate time to that particular passion to get those juices flowing…metaphorically, of course!  

Hence, making time for the things in life that bring us joy fuels us for the day to day grind.  In fact, the more we engage in our passions, the more we bring the feelings we experience during those pursuits into the other areas of our lives.  Therefore, what we focus on truly does grow!

Feel Your Beauty

You are beautiful, learn to see it!  However, your beauty is for you, alone.  Not to attract or keep a partner.  Whatever makes you feel beautiful on the inside and outside – keep doing it!  Thus, if  bright lipstick makes you feel beautiful, keep applying it!  Therefore, if high heels make you feel hot,  keep wearing them!  Do high heels make you feel horrible?  Get you some good, strappy sandals with a slight wedge.  Don’t give up!  As we get older, sometimes we need to negotiate new weapons to make us feel beautiful, but keep trying!  A good massage will make me feel like the most beautiful woman in the world!  Got to say, I schedule damn few of them.  However, I’m going to try to do better!  

Be In The Moment

That means its okay to be a little spontaneous.  Try a new hair style, schedule a trip to New Orleans with girl friends on a whim.    Living in the moment leaves you free to ride the flow of your life with freedom and abandon.  Sometimes those moments are going to be sad, filled with hurt.  Feel those feelings to your very core.  However, sometimes those moments will be filled with joy and great pleasure!  Feel those feelings to the depths of your soul!

Valuing your feelings truly gives you the confidence to face whatever life brings.  Most notably, if you value them, others will also!  

In the words of Audrey Hepburn… “I believe in pink – I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner –  I believe in kissing – kissing a lot – I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong – I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls – I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles.”


Heights Boudoir Photography Studio conveniently located in Houston, Texas

Houston area newest boudoir studio is Heights Boudoir Photography Studio.  At Heights Boudoir, we provide intimate portraiture in a safe environment in the shadow of downtown Houston. For intimate portraiture in Houston contact Heights Boudoir at (832) 630-8081 or email jan@HeightsBoudoir.com to begin the adventure of your lifetime!

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